How do I manifest a happy, healthy throuple relationship with my 2 SPs?

Question

I want to manifest a healthy throuple relationship with both my SPs where all three of us are happy together.

I have been robotically affirming for months and having inner conversations with my first SP, but I still find myself checking his social media and seeing reposts about the third person and how happy they are together. My first SP and I broke up a year ago, and he has not reached out to me since.

With my second SP, I feel like he is not prioritizing me enough. He is busy with school, but he barely texts me throughout the day, rarely plans dates, and has not asked me to be his girlfriend yet.

I have been affirming things like “I love how he treats me,” “I am always prioritized,” and “I am deeply loved.” I am also working on my self concept and trying my best not to react to the 3D anymore.

How do I change my assumptions and manifest the relationship I want without constantly checking the 3D or feeling like I am not being prioritized?

scaffirmations coach · Accepted Answer

First, you need to get clear about the relationship you want to experience. You mentioned that you want a healthy, happy throuple relationship with both your SPs, where all three…