How to deal with the current undesired version of specific person (SP) while manifesting?

In my sessions with clients, the most common question that I have always been asked is how to deal with the current undesired version of SP while manifesting the desired version of him/her. How can one deal with the no contact, hot and cold behaviour, ghosting, SP not conforming, SP saying he/she is not looking for a relationship etc. or How to deal with the current version of SP if we are going to be face to face and if he/she repeats the same unfavourable stories, how to avoid the awkwardness? In this post, we are going to understand to deal with such situations and will learn to handle 3D effectively.

Let’s first understand how our conscious mind works under such challenging situations

1. Under such challenging situations, your logical mind tries to create a block that it is impossible to solve this situation and asks you how it is going to manifest. And sometimes your desired reality seemed out of your reach. But as I always suggest that to become a master at manifesting, one should learn to mute his/her logical mind. Manifestation is not logical. Even if currently there is no way, the way will be made to fulfil your desire. That’s the power of your subconscious mind.

2. Under such challenging situations, your conscious mind will always force you to focus more on the current undesired version of SP and complain more about it. And to do more negative inner conversations with your SP, doing the blaming game and ending up being angry or frustrated.

3. Under such challenging situations you might feel sad or low and could feel anxiety sometimes when some fear kicks in and your logical mind asks when and how questions. And it could feel like really hard to manifest your SP.

4. Under such challenging situations, you might end up playing ego games with your SP and could create more resistance in your manifestation journey.

5. Under such challenging situations, sometimes you might get a strong urge to reach out to your SP and ask for an explanation of his/her actions. And feel like giving up and asking questions like why manifestation works for everyone but not for me.

And if some manifestation coach (including myself) suggests you simply ignore your challenging situations and maintain a state of wish fulfilled, then it is a very hard thing to do. You could be able to maintain a state of wish fulfilled for some time, but when you interact with 3D for the rest of the day, it could easily take you out of the state of wish fulfilled and make you feel hard to manifest your SP.

So the very first thing, even before starting any manifestation work, we need to learn to make peace with our current hard circumstances and leave it as it is. I called this “Muting your 3D”. Muting your 3D is an ongoing job. Every day, whenever your 3D tries to get a reaction out of you, or you miss your SP and your mind asks why it is not working, you need you make peace with such negative thoughts or circumstances and mute them.

How to Mute the 3D Once you learn to mute your conscious mind to create any negative stories out of 3D, then you are automatically muting the 3D. Muting the 3D is a two-step process

Step 1: Reminding yourself the Basics of Manifesting Whenever 3D tries to take a reaction out of you, always remind yourself that you are the creator of your reality and that current circumstances are the result of your old thoughts. Once you change your dominant assumptions, 3D will change automatically. In your reality, only you have free will and everyone is just a messenger mirroring your dominant assumptions.

Step 2: Responding to your Negative Thoughts You need to prevent your conscious mind from sending any negative stories to your subconscious mind. You can do this by responding to your negative thoughts

For example: “I have been practicing living in the end for few months, still I have not seen any movement in 3D, I might be doing something wrong” — Reacting/Questioning

“NO!! There is always movement, I am doing everything right, I am the god of my reality and I trust the process, everything always works out for me.” — Responding

In case you have multiple negative thoughts, and you are spiralling, then simply allow yourself to feel whatever you are feeling right now and let these negative thoughts pass. Do not resist or ignore them.

Once you learn to effectively mute the 3D, then you will have more time and energy to focus on your manifestation work and will manifest your desires quickly.

Now no matter what is your current situation with your SP, be it being in no contact, hot and cold behaviour, ghosting, SP not showing interest, SP not ready for relationship, SP is with 3P etc. YOU CAN SOLVE THIS SITUATION and manifest exactly what you desire.

The thumb rule is do not let your SP’s behaviour in current reality divert your focus from the desired reality (living in the end). And STOP analysing SP thought patterns like why he/she did this or doing this, why he/she is not responding, why he/she is still with 3P, why he/she not conforming, what he/she is doing, is he/she missing me or not etc. STOP asking such questions to yourself, and instead tell your SP in your mind what he/she is thinking and how they are feeling about YOU.

Your SP is you pushed out. Once you create dominant favourable assumptions about your SP regardless of what is happening in the 3D, your SP has no choice but to mirror those dominant assumptions. So stop self-sabotaging yourself when you face any challenging situation and stay persistent in living in the end.

Last week, one of my clients asked “I live with my SP and going to face him every day, how can I stop reacting to this current undesired version of SP.” I answered that since you are going to face your SP every day and from a manifestation perspective, your mirror is always in front of you. In such cases, the tendency to create negative stories and get triggered is more as compared to when you are not living with your SP or in no contact. So we need to create a proper plan upfront to face this undesired version of SP. And I gave her this plan

Plan: Every time she is going to face SP in a day, she needs to remember these quick points in her mind

1. My SP does not have free will, and he is just a messenger 2. I am the creator of my reality 3. This 3D is temporary and will change once I persist 4. I will try my best to react less and less by seeing the whole situation from a manifestation perspective

Along with this plan, I also gave her affirmations (as per her situation) with a proper routine to follow. And her reactions have decreased tremendously, and she is now able to handle 3D effectively and SP is conforming.

So any challenging situation you might be in, see that situation from a manifestation perspective, and you will be able to find it solvable and will be able to overcome it as well.

Now I will wrap this answer with a reminder that all your manifestations are safe, and you are not going to ruin them in any way. Your only job as a manifestor is to keep persisting in living in the end and keep muting your logical and current circumstances no matter what is happening. Once you keep winning your conscious mind, you will automatically win this manifestation game.

Happy Manifesting!!